Fat Women - More things to talk about then porn, food and clothes

I am tired of same issues over, and over again about the plus size comminity. Either we are categorized in 3 major groups

Fat girls who only care about food
Fat girls who are only sexy if they are on bbw porn - as a fetish
Fat girls - obvious power house of the fashion world - plus size clothing

Now I am not complaining about finally starting to be accepted. But if we really want to be truly accepted we need to be respected. We need to be open and address everyday issues that happen with being overweight.

Like:

Have you avoided going to see a health professional, because you are tired of being scolded for your current weight? ( which did not happen over night)

How about talking about sex in a new relationship and how your body issues could possibly stand in the way of a healthy sex life?

How he needs to be open and honest with himself about liking larger women.

How about big women be ok and open with liking thinner men?

Being a big parent and trying to not let your weight get in the way of keeping up with your kids?

My favorite... fat friendly stuff: parking, booths.... airplane companies

Fat should not equal frumpy?

Job discrimination?

Working out/eating normal still fat?

Weight loss surgery backfires?

Weight loss pills not work?

Seriously to all my biggies and friends of.... We are who we are, so lets stop hiding and just deal with it. Let's love to live large or at any size, but to be respected.

Take care of yourselves

Missy B.