Frumpy Fat Girls - I get mad at you too.

I know I have written about how I don't agree with the general plus size girls who is looking for acceptance when they pose in a pair of booty shorts or some naked upside down pic that is supposed to lure men to talk to them. This giving the stereo type of big girls being easy or desperate < --- no decent self respecting guy is going to want that for a commitment... he'll just see us as short term fun I want to rant about the other plus size girl that pisses me off. Miss Frumpy Frumpy=Dumpy Once again my point is that hiding behind an ugly moo-moo like top, or wearing clothes just because they fit does not help the rise and acceptance of the big girl. How you dress is an expression of how you feel about yourself. Take some time find something that looks good and FITS right. I don't care if you are a size 14 or a size 32 I believe you could look good at any size. Wearing clothes that hide you, or just not caring including not wearing make up or having your hair done just puts you in a stereo type.... in fact it puts all of us in a stereo type. I'm tired of plus size women put in the category of lazy and slobish. So take charge. And if you don't have any fashion sense.... not to worry that's what girlfriends are for. Heck you could even just ask a "put together" fat girl at the clothing store for assistance, and I bet you she'd be tickled pink to help you with a make over. If that does not work... heck you could approach me the author of this blog or I bet any other fat girl on the net who is open to fighting for the plump revolution. We all are fighting the same battle.

And please when I use the word fat, don't be insulted... it is what we are... It is not a bad word at all... It's real. In fact I don't think fat=ugly. To me fat = round, full, soft and voluptuous.

As all my rants go, if you want the plus size community to be accepted, it starts with everyone of us.... including you Miss Frumpy! Stop it because it pisses me off, for me, for our community and even for yourself.

You owe it to yourself and to all others who can relate to you to show your true beauty. I promise when you dress well it gives you more confidence, and just feels good. People also value you more when you take pride in what you look like. Be fat, be proud and show it by dressing the way you want to feel. If you don't feel so beautiful on the inside... fake it till you make it I say... with practice and time you will feel different, I guarantee it.

Take care of yourselves

Missy B ;)